OFFER YOUR RESIGNATION

Do you know anyone who consistently plays the victim card? How about someone who's identity is wrapped up in how difficult their life is? Do you know "Debbie Downer" or "Bummer Bob?" If you do, be cautious. Cliches exist because they are generally true, and misery loves company. People who hold on to the victim card, will always need you to empathize. They will never stop expecting you to be their source of encouragement. They will time and again rely on you to keep their spirits up, while continuing to voice the "woe is me" attitude. They actually don't want life to be better, they want you to feel for them. Be careful, because as believers we are called by God to love and encourage one another, but we are not called to be enablers. We are not called to be spiritual medication to the chronically, intentionally ill. Don't be a part of that kind of company. And if you already are, the offer your resignation. Because there's a beautiful world out there that you're missing.