YOU'VE GOT TO PULL THE PLUG.

Why are we so afraid of letting things end. There are actually very proper times to let programs, minisries and even relationships die. But it's so hard for us to let go. Perhaps it's because we are attached to this specific ministry idea. Maybe we have a real sense of ownership for a program we championed. And of course, we all have a hard time writing someone of as a friend.

We need to pull the plug. The most common phrase heard in churches is, "We've always done it this way." Churches are great at starting ministries, groups and programs, but they are lousy at recognizing when they've lost their value. We should be looking for the best ways to use our energy for expanding the Kingdom of God.

Letting a relationship end is even harder. As Christians, we are taught to value everyone as worthy of Jesus' sacrifice. Everyone is created in God's image and loved the same by Him. But don't let that trap you in unhealthy friendships. We all know that we shouldn't remain in abusive relationships, but what about destructive relationships? What about relationships that just don't necessarily move our lives closer to God? We are called to love everyone and to recognize all people as God's beloved creation, but we are not called to foster relationships with those who do not edify us and bring us closer to our Creator. We must always act in love, but we must also not allow ourselves to be negatively impacted in our relationship with Christ by remaining unnecessarily connected with negative influencers. I guess I'd put it this way, love all men and women, but pursue Jesus with reckless abandon.